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Connect Day - 1

25.05.19
9.30a.m - Started with Rapport building.
* basic information sharing and explained about the purpose and needs in attending Connect Class.
* for building the rapport better,members formed as two groups and asked to get more information about each other.
*While hearing others information, a self analysis or judging or commanding or advising or a mind state to stay away from opposite person or fear for loss of information or any internal thought process happens in the person.
*Accordingly members were divided as information gathering, connecting to  Myself,advising and forgetting information or with any combination from these four .
*Members came to know our Style while communicating with others.
*Gestalt - then what? model was practiced.Group were made as Therapist, client and a observer.
11.15 - tea break

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* Then what ? and a goal process was demonstrated.we observe the Client, Therapist and the Process.
*one to one, one and half , two way therapies.
#one to one - happens only with the "Then what"? questioning and goal achieving process. no emotional connection or sharing of memories happens here.
#one and half model - sharing the memories are included and also we need the awareness for staying away. no emotional connection happens here.
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#two way model -  memories with emotions are shared in therapy.Also a high awareness for staying away from the client is also needed.

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* observations should be done with the verbal and nonverbal communications between the Therapist and the Client.
1.00pm lunch.

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#Contact - building Rapport with verbal        and nonverbal.

#contract - between Facilitator,Participant

and facility at Pavithram were listed.

#Cure - Practising the Therapies.
* "Touch the wall" game for goal achieving was played.
* mind blocks,three energies -  free energy,bound energy and unbound energy  was explained.
*4.00pm feedback.

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Home work ~
Cascading goal - organisation and personal.
write about the first 1 hour of the day,as if you come from the mars.
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