The Inner Child work

"I am not...... I cannot .... I shouldn't... I mustn't...  " .... The beliefs, values one picks up as a child makes a stronghold position in one's behaviour as an adult.

The parental contaminations leading to child confusions inturn leads to lot of emotional barriers in adult life causing stuckness. The energies doesn't move forward instead they keep on rolling in circles within.. the homeostasis is affected.

Until the contaminations are dealt with, through inner child works, the energies cannot move forward.

Sivapriya




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  1. Prasad Naveen @ Pavithram30 July 2019 at 11:22

    Nice writeup. Its a wonderful understanding Shiva,

    Also note, energies can be moved by using attention management and focus on a different intention and to execute it in a creative way.

    Alter the state of Awareness, Energy and intention by using creative approaches.
    Looking at it from different point of view.
    for example the Witness view, or the 3rd party view.

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  2. Prasad Naveen @ Pavithram30 July 2019 at 11:23

    I like the way you have written it, the confidence you enable through your writing is an inspiration.

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